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TIME TO BELIEVE...YOU CAN DO IT
If you have teenagers that are studying for or writing exams, what are some of the phrases you would say to them to encourage them? More than likely you would pass comments such as "just do your best", "believe in yourself" or "you can do it", to name but a few.
Do you realsie just how wise those words are: people who believe in themselves tend to achieve better results than those who don't. This is because the way you view a situation inevitably affects how you react to it, and so is a big factor in determining what happens.
This applies as much to weight loss as it does to passing exams. It's important that you remain positive and confident in order to achieve the results that you desire.
This is always much easier to do when things are going well. When you make healthy choices at a restaurant, when you pass the ice cream section at the store without succumbing to your temptation, and when you step on the scale and it registers a weight loss. This will make you think about how good you have been, and you will automatically feel great about yourself. You know you can do it.
But what happens when you give in to a cream cake, spend the evening devouring a big bag of potato crisps - all because you had a bad day at the office, or get on the scale and it registers a weight gain? How do you possibly continue to believe in yourself when all the signs are clearly telling you not to?
Be Aware of Your Thoughts...Thoughts lead to actions and actions lead to thoughts. "I feel fat" can lead to eating a cream cake - and eating a cream cake can lead to "I feel fat". By becoming aware of what you are thinking, and challenging any unhelpful thoughts - or beliefs - you can break this cycle. By substituting a more helpful thought for the unhelpful one you will begin to get yourself back onto a positive cycle again.
Here's How...Mary gained a fair amount of weight from last week when she weighed herself this morning. Although she wasn't 100% diligent on her eating plan, she was surprised at the weight gain and started thinking that she was never going to succeed. She reached for the cookie jar, and was about to give in to her temptation, when she realised that her negative thoughts about the weight gain were causing her to continue on an unplanned eating spree...
Instead of eating the cookie (or maybe two cookies), she viewed the weight gain as a 'warning' about what would happen if she carried on eating the foods that were not a part of her eating plan. She turned a negative situation into a positive one, and decided that the next week when she climbed on the scale, she would make sure that she lost, not only what she had gained but even more.
Something incredible happened here. She made a decision not to turn back to her old eating habits, but to push on with a positive frame of mind and achieve the goal she had set out for herself. Weight loss was once again upper most in her mind...and nothing was going to stop her. She positively spoke to herself, and that is what we all need to do to ourselves. Yes, we go through a bad patch, but what we do with that patch is what determines our weight loss outcome. We can get negative and say "I will never succeed, so what the hang...eat...eat...eat". Or we can say, "I've hit a bump in the road, but I have to achieve this weight loss goal, and I am not going to let one bump in the road stop me from getting to my destination".
Constant positive re-inforcement and encouragement to yourself, will get you to where you want to go.
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